If you would have told me two years ago I would be the kind of woman that regularly sends pictures and videos to her man, I would have said you were out of your mind! What kind of woman does that? Well this kind of woman does. So lets be perfectly clear. In my thirty plus years on this earth I had never send a man a picture that would fall under the category of nude, dirty, naughty, or sexy. I was never with a man I felt needed or deserved them. I also did not trust them enough to not rage post them to the internet. So this is where I do my duty as your friend Sally to put this disclaimer out. Do not send picture to people you have met online, or people you don't trust!
So Daddy and I were seeing each other for a bit. One night we are having some phone sex, and I say something about how wet he has made me. He's reply, "I want to see send me a picture" Oh dear, I have no experience, where to I start? So I snap a picture and I look at it. My first thought is does it really look like that, why does he want to see that?? To be sure it looks normal I google Vagina for reference, I immediately regret that decision and determine that some women should not put their vagina on the internet. Just saying. Anyway, I want to get it right so I put on my porn director hat.
I want miss kitty to look purrfect. So I decide on a classy shot with my fingers in it, (the picture not the kitty) and I snap another photo. Dear god my nails are jacked up....Ugh...delete....quick paint my nails...try again. So I think I have it now, while my nails are drying I again google some ideas for pictures. I want something classy. So nails on point, check, a few moisturing spritz to the kitty, check, position that is flattering, check and click.....I wonder what that would look like in black and white. As crazy as this seems, I know there are other women that have done the same thing.
So 25 minutes later I hit send, and while he appreciates the picture he points out the moment is over. Well shit. All that prep work for nothing? Yes, exactly. All that prep work was unnecessary he wanted to see the moment not sheer perfection. Later, I was thinking to myself do you think guys put that much thought into a dick pic? No, it's hard, click, you're welcome bitch! I can't imagine a guy, holding his hard dick in his hand thinking "OMG is that a callous, I need to edit that out.
Women want it to be perfect, I am not sure why. Ever watch a porn? People look at those kitties and they are in rough shape! Any way, a few days later I was faced with a challenge that pushed me to just face reality. I was away for several days at a conference for work. In the middle of a training I was given instruction to excuse myself to the ladies room and send Daddy a picture of "his kitty" who am I to argue with Daddy? This time I didn't overthink I lifted my dress, and snapped his picture and hit send. I was rewarded with "Sexy" what every one wants to hear.
A week or so later I wanted to surprise Daddy and I made him a video, I used some of our favorite props, and just let go. I am proud to say a few years later he still has it. I have learned to play with lighting, use stands, and just let go. We worry to much. This person sees you naked, they know what your intimate parts look like, they have seen your "O" face. A video is no different. If you are nervous start small. Start with a picture, or a short video. I also recommend you watch it as it can be a confidence booster.
Which brings me to the next topic couples videos. These work wonders for self esteem, and confidence. The first video Daddy and I ever made was because he wanted to show me what he got to hear and see while we were in the reverse cowgirl position. I struggle with how noisy I feel I am. I have body image issues because I used to be very over weight. So he recorded while I did my thing, then we watched it together. Ladies and gentlemen I'm a fucking porn star. I mean I was turning myself on. More recently we made one because Daddy wanted to see my face when he hits it from behind. First let me say, put the camera in front of you and neither of you will have body image issues.
The angle was awesome, and Daddy looked sexy as fuck doing his thing. I on the other hand have "This is the 4th time this evening I've been banged" hair, and a red flustered face. As we watch it I point out if I was a real porn star my hair would be perfect and make-up on point. Daddy is quick to tell me that's why he doesn't like the fake porn, that's not what it's like in real life. You're sweaty, you're red faced, you're out of breath. Sometimes your porno moans sound more like a goat begging for food. Sometimes you say things and they don't make sense. That's okay because it is real. Make it. Watch it. Complement each other. Delete it (or save that's none of my business)
The moral of the story is life is too short to be anything but wild, crazy for each other, and happy. Take pictures lots of them. Make videos. Learn from them, gain confidence. Be naughty, take a chance, try something out of your comfort zone. Besides who doesn't like to watch <3 Sally
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