Jack and Sally's Contract

Because we love each other and value our relationship we hear by enter into this contract of love to protect our relationship and each other.  This is the contract created by Jack hereinafter referred to as "Daddy" and Sally hereinafter as "Little"  The terms of this contract many be renegotiated, or changed at anytime.  Daddy and Little agree to enter into a 24/7 TPE relationship in the bedroom, in the lair (home), and outside. 

1. Upon arriving home restrictive clothing will be removed so that both parties are comfortable.
2. The arriving party will locate the other party to properly greet them with affection, and let them know they are well. 
3. Daddy and Little will be equally responsible for monitoring any communication from toxic and/or potentially toxic people coming and going in their lives in order to prevent each other from being further abused by outside parties. 
4. Daddy and Little will share their feelings, emotions, and daily activities outside the lair to prevent the build up of stress and monitor the mental health of both parties. 
5. Daddy and Little will maintain a healthy lifestyle and provide each other with physical and mental support to maintain their bodies.
6. Daddy and Little will continue to educate themselves on topics of interest, and maintain a connection to the BDSM community. Information gathered on interests will be shared. 
7. Daddy and Little agree on the safe word "Pineapples" and will use it to prevent injury and/or exhaustion. Safety comes before pleasure. 
8. Daddy and Little agree that activities with another party is only permissible upon prior agreement of both Daddy and Little. Both Daddy and Little must be present for the scene. 
9. Daddy and Little will sleep naked unless weather or illness prevents it. 
10. Daddy and Little reserve the right to request wardrobe changes for social gatherings, or to sexually enhance the pleasure of a scene. 
11. Daddy and Little agree to keep track of each others coming and goings from the lair for safety purposes.   Neither will restrict the travel or visitation rights of work related activities. Either party may request to accompany the other to non work related locations for the purpose of pleasure, affection, or safety purposes/concerns.
12. The dominate will be referred to in public by his first name or a term of affection; he will be referred to as "Daddy" in the lair.  The submissive will be referred to in public by her first name or a term of affection, and as "Little" or "Brat" in the lair. 
13. Derogatory terms are not permitted to be used when the Daddy or little is referring to each other with the exception of "dirty talk" during sex which is acceptable. 
14. Neither party will use drugs, smoke, or use alcohol in excess at social activities. 
15. Both parties will take medications prescribed by his or her physician to maintain their health. 
16. Daddy and Little agree to conduct themselves in a respectable manner in public as to not embarrass. Behavior should make the partner proud to be by each others side. Conduct in the lair during scene will be discussed prior to scene. 
17. Daddy and Little agree to be open and honest about wants and needs. 
18. Daddy and little will actively seek affection from each other at all times. 
19. Daddy and Little will maintain close proximity to each other in the lair as well as in public. There is a heavy emphasis on physical contact. PDA is required.  Little will not walk behind Daddy, she will remain at his side as an equal. Little will hold Daddy's hand at all times while in public.
20. Neither Daddy or Little require permission to speak to others in public, and may make eye contact to do so. 
21. Little will order for Daddy at restaurants. 
22. Daddy and Little agree upon request they will provide the other information about who they are conversing with via phone, text, or Facebook. 
23. Daddy reserves the right to confiscate Little's phone on her days off to prevent work from disrupting Little's days off. During this time Daddy will monitor Little's phone for emergencies and return as needed. 
24. Little's phone will be turned off on vacations so that she gives her undivided attention to Daddy. 
25. Daddy and Little will reserve "Hug Day" off from work, and spend it together. 
26. Daddy has final say on all matters in both Little's life and the lair. Daddy does not reserve the right to make decisions as the pertain to Little's business, or employment. 
27. Little will maintain the lairs finances.  Both parties make financial decisions together. 
28. Little will maintain her persona "Sally" and help others online. She will maintain a blog of helpful information, and post emotions, or experiences as it pertains to our relationship or lifestyle.  
29. Daddy and Little maintain the right to choose their own friends, however if either party feels a friend is toxic, or has a potential to cross a boundary an open discussion will take place and a mutual decision should be made. 
30. Household chores will be shared, groceries will be purchased together as often as possible. 
31. If Daddy is not home, or unable to participate in sexual activity due to illness. Little will masturbate until she achieves one or more orgasms. This is non-negotiable. Little will report to Daddy the successful orgasm if he is not available to watch. Pictures and videos are encouraged.
32. Unless at work or away on business; Little will return home immediately upon Daddy's request. 
33. Daddy and Little agree to be open to any sexual activity that does not cross hard limits and to appreciate each others interests. Hard limits are defined as:
1. No play that involves fire
2. No play that involves cutting or blood letting
3. No spanking with items that are likely to bruise, cut, or cause serious injury. 
4. No gags
5. No play that involves urine, or feces.
6. No fisting.
7. No genital torture. 
8. No play involving electricity. 
34. Daddy accepts responsibility for his Little's safety and understands it is his duty to make her feel safe, loved, protected, respected. 
35. Daddy will set clear limits and boundaries for Little so that she does not struggle making decisions alone.  
36. Daddy will push Little's boundaries, and push limits. 
37. Daddy will discipline Little as needed maintain control, and clearly define limits. 
38. Little will make sure Daddy feels loved, needed, wanted, and respected. 
39. Little will make her feelings known, but understands Daddy's say is final and will not argue. 
40. Little agrees to meet Daddy's sexual needs and desires.
41. Little will encourage and support Daddy in growing as a dominate. 
42. Little Agrees to a two pet maximum.